Job is a Love-Hate Relationship

In my earlier post, I had mentioned about Avishkaar Box. My Avishkaar journey is really close to my heart. Sri Sri's new year message said " Take the learning from the events and drop the emotions". I have been putting in my best efforts to apply this knowledge w.r.t to Avishkaar Box. I haven't been successful 100% so far but efforts are on :) So you may find drops of emotions in this post here and there  :)

I've always felt a good job is like a love-hate relationship. There are different phases.

1.  Initially when the relationship starts, a lot of time is taken to decide whether you want to get into it or not. There are initial hiccups whether it would work out or not..is it the same kind that I am thinking..the careful baby steps… :)

2. Then the phase when a comfort starts coming in…you start settling in, enjoying it thoroughly, it’s the most beautiful phase, the “honeymoon” period :D everything seems hunky dory…you surrender yourself to it and are willing to go to any extent to make things work..you do everything that relationship demands.

3.  Then a phase where differences starts creeping in. You start feeling you are not understood or misunderstood, your own desires are neglected, you did so much in the relationship and yet there is not much acknowledgement. You start feeling suffocated and try to sort things out.

4.   And if things don’t get sorted, you finally decide it’s time to move out.  It’s hard, very hard to take that step considering all the good times you’ve had. But you know it’s good for both. You are not happy together. Things are just not working out.  You will miss the relationship immensely but are killing yourself being into it. And with a heavy heart, you call it quit.

Keep Smiling

Swati :)